Hey Sis, let’s be real for a second. Have you ever felt like God was calling you to something big, but the fear just won’t let you move? Like, you know deep down He’s placed this dream in your heart, but the what ifs keep popping up: What if I fail? What will people think? Am I even qualified?
Trust me, I’ve been there. Fear can feel so heavy, like it’s tying you down and keeping you from stepping into the purpose God’s called you to. But here’s the good news: fear doesn’t have to win. God’s got you, and He’s already equipped you with everything you need to move forward—you just need a mindset shift to help you let go of the fear and trust Him fully.
In this post, I’m breaking it all down: how to recognize and reframe your fears, anchor yourself in truth, and start taking faith-filled steps toward your calling. Sis, it’s time to stop letting fear hold you back and start embracing what God has for you.
Recognize the Fear
Sis, let’s call it like it is—fear has a way of creeping in and keeping us stuck. But here’s the thing: you can’t fight what you don’t face. Before you can overcome fear, you have to recognize it for what it is.
What’s the fear that’s been holding you back? Is it fear of failing? Fear of what people might say? Maybe it’s even fear of succeeding and then not being able to keep it up. Whatever it is, it’s time to name it, because when you shine a light on fear, it starts to lose its power.
Here’s the truth: fear often comes disguised as overthinking, procrastination, or even perfectionism. But at its core, fear is simply a barrier trying to keep you from your God-given purpose. And Sis, you weren’t created to live stuck behind a wall of what ifs.
Action Step:
Take some time to journal about what’s been holding you back. Ask yourself:
- What am I really afraid of?
- What’s the worst-case scenario I’m imagining?
- How would I handle it if that actually happened?
Once you see fear for what it is, you’ll start to realize that it doesn’t hold the power you thought it did.
Faith Reminder:
“For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” – 2 Timothy 1:7
Sis, fear doesn’t come from God. The same God who called you to this purpose has already equipped you to overcome the fear that’s trying to hold you back. Recognize it, name it, and remind yourself that God’s power is bigger than any what if. ❤️
Shift Your Perspective
Sooo, let’s talk about how we see fear. A lot of times, we let it stop us in our tracks, but what if fear wasn’t the enemy? What if it was actually a sign that you’re on the verge of something bigger—something that’s stretching you and growing you into the woman God’s called you to be?
Here’s the deal: fear often shows up when you’re stepping outside your comfort zone. It’s that little voice saying, “What if this doesn’t work?” But what if you shifted that to, “What if this is exactly what God has been preparing me for?”
Fear isn’t always a bad thing—it’s an opportunity. It’s a chance to lean into faith, trust God more deeply, and let Him show up in ways you didn’t think were possible. When you reframe fear as a signal that you’re moving toward growth, it starts to lose its grip on you.
Action Step:
Think about one area where fear has been stopping you. Write it down, and then ask yourself:
- What’s the opportunity here?
- How is this fear pushing me to trust God more?
- What’s the faith-filled perspective I can choose instead?
For example, if you’re afraid of failing, remind yourself that failure is often the best teacher—and that God’s not asking for perfection, just obedience.
Faith Reminder:
“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” – Joshua 1:9
Sis, fear doesn’t have the final say—God does. And He’s not calling you to this purpose to leave you hanging. Shift your perspective, trust Him with the outcome, and take the next step forward.
Anchor Yourself in Truth
Sis, let’s get real—fear is loud, but God’s truth is louder. When fear starts whispering lies like, “You’re not enough,” “You’re going to fail,” or “Who do you think you are to do this?”—you have to fight back with the Word of God.
The enemy thrives on fear and doubt, but the truth of God’s promises can silence those lies. You are chosen, equipped, and called for a purpose far greater than your fears. Anchoring yourself in that truth is how you stand firm, even when the doubts creep in.
Here’s how to do it:
Find Scriptures That Speak to Your Fear:
If you’re afraid of failure, lean on Isaiah 41:10: “Fear not, for I am with you.” If you’re doubting your ability, hold onto Philippians 4:13: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”Repeat Truth Over and Over:
Post scriptures where you can see them daily—on your mirror, your phone wallpaper, or even sticky notes around your workspace. Let His promises drown out the lies.Pray the Word:
Turn the scriptures into prayers. For example: “Lord, Your Word says You are with me and I have nothing to fear. Help me walk boldly in that truth today.”
Action Step:
Choose one scripture that speaks directly to your biggest fear. Write it down, memorize it, and speak it out loud whenever fear creeps in. Let it be your go-to weapon when doubt tries to take over.
Faith Reminder:
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” – Isaiah 41:10
Sis, when you anchor yourself in God’s truth, fear doesn’t stand a chance. His Word is your shield, your strength, and your reminder that He’s got you—even in the middle of uncertainty. You’re already equipped.
Take Small, Faith-Filled Steps
Listen, sometimes fear feels so big that it’s paralyzing. You sit there thinking about all the things you need to do and end up doing… nothing. But here’s the good news: you don’t have to conquer everything all at once. God isn’t asking for perfection; He’s asking for obedience—one small, faith-filled step at a time.
The truth is, action breaks fear’s hold. Even the tiniest move forward shows fear that it doesn’t have control over you. It’s not about how big the step is; it’s about your willingness to trust God and take it.
Here’s how to start:
Pick One Thing:
Don’t overwhelm yourself with a long to-do list. Choose one small, manageable action that moves you closer to your calling.
Example: Post a short encouragement on social media, share your vision with a trusted friend, or spend 10 minutes brainstorming your next step.Keep It Simple:
Remember, it’s not about doing it perfectly. It’s about showing up. God honors even the smallest steps when they’re taken in faith.Celebrate the Wins:
Each step, no matter how small, is a victory. Celebrate it and let it build your confidence for the next one.
Action Step:
Take a moment to pray and ask God for clarity on your next small step. Write it down, commit to it, and take action today—no matter how imperfect it feels.
Faith Reminder:
“The Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights in Him; though he may stumble, he will not fall, for the Lord upholds him with His hand.” – Psalm 37:23-24
Sis, those small steps may not feel like much in the moment, but they’re building momentum, strengthening your faith, and moving you closer to your purpose. Trust that each step is leading you exactly where God wants you to go.
Trust God with the Outcome
Sis, let me remind you of this: fear doesn’t have to keep you stuck. It’s natural to feel hesitant, to second-guess, or to wonder if you’re truly ready for what God’s calling you to do. But here’s the truth—you don’t have to have it all figured out. God has already equipped you with everything you need to move forward.
Recognize the fear, shift your perspective, anchor yourself in His truth, take those small faith-filled steps, and trust Him with the outcome. It’s not about perfection; it’s about obedience. God isn’t asking you to carry the weight of the results—He’s asking you to trust Him and take action.
Sis, the dream He’s placed in your heart is there for a reason, and the world is waiting for the light only you can shine. It’s time to stop letting fear call the shots and start walking boldly in the purpose He’s prepared for you.
✨ Ready to take your first step? Download my Procrastination to Purpose Checklist for practical steps to help you break free from fear and start moving forward in faith. Let’s do this together, Sis—you’re not alone in this journey!
Conclusion
Sis, let me remind you of this: fear doesn’t have to keep you stuck. It’s natural to feel hesitant, to second-guess, or to wonder if you’re truly ready for what God’s calling you to do. But here’s the truth—you don’t have to have it all figured out. God has already equipped you with everything you need to move forward.
Recognize the fear, shift your perspective, anchor yourself in His truth, take those small faith-filled steps, and trust Him with the outcome. It’s not about perfection; it’s about obedience. God isn’t asking you to carry the weight of the results—He’s asking you to trust Him and take action.
Sis, the dream He’s placed in your heart is there for a reason, and the world is waiting for the light only you can shine. It’s time to stop letting fear call the shots and start walking boldly in the purpose He’s prepared for you.
✨ Ready to take your first step? Download my Procrastination to Purpose Checklist for practical steps to help you break free from fear and start moving forward in faith. Let’s do this together, Sis—you’re not alone in this journey!
